tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2638185360970117272.post1941314537784480429..comments2023-08-05T06:14:28.391-07:00Comments on We Are One: I'm sadRuthhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07083142637240943607noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2638185360970117272.post-87867059778438051772014-10-21T13:16:19.287-07:002014-10-21T13:16:19.287-07:00I appreciate hugs. Thanks Jessie. I appreciate hugs. Thanks Jessie. Ruthhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07083142637240943607noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2638185360970117272.post-71478044261637206972014-10-21T12:26:22.130-07:002014-10-21T12:26:22.130-07:00I have that feeling a lot too. It seems to come a...I have that feeling a lot too. It seems to come and go. I think I will forever wish it was different too. But, it doesn't hurt ALL the time, like it used to. And the moments of grieving are less frequent and less intense than they used to be. So, there is hope in that.<br /><br />Sending hugs your way. jessiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06399613921768190064noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2638185360970117272.post-31023166291957406502014-10-21T06:38:31.874-07:002014-10-21T06:38:31.874-07:00Thank you mulderfan. I appreciate you sharing you...Thank you mulderfan. I appreciate you sharing your experience. Ruthhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07083142637240943607noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2638185360970117272.post-27105919096322206822014-10-21T06:23:08.705-07:002014-10-21T06:23:08.705-07:00In one of the many books I've read trying to s...In one of the many books I've read trying to solve the puzzle of why my parents didn't love me, I found this: I'm not unlovable. My parents are incapable of love. They were broken" long before I was born. I didn't break them and I'm not responsible for fixing them.<br /><br />Judy's right. I will never get over the loss of my husband but I have learned to cope with it by building a new life. Same with my parents. Some days I feel cheated and I likely always will.mulderfanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07500535934417551223noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2638185360970117272.post-70338157994520729182014-10-20T23:14:47.498-07:002014-10-20T23:14:47.498-07:00Last counselor told me I would grieve the loss for...Last counselor told me I would grieve the loss for the rest of my life, every time I was reminded I would never be loved by my parents the way I deserved to be loved. He also said it was okay.Judyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07843239483061220089noreply@blogger.com