Brené Brown shares several TED talks that I listened to several times. Someone on Facebook was sharing about toxic shame asking if anyone had ever heard of it. Uuuhhh YEA. Toxic shame comes hand-in-hand with abuse. The abuser blames the victim and sheds their shame onto the victim. Blame and shame are dastardly duo that are difficult to over come. Brené Brown studies shame, really she studies shame especially in relationship to vulnerability. I have her book but haven't read that yet. I haven't watched all of her videos but I learned about her from my first counselor. Over the years I watched her video several times. I am sharing the link to her TED page so people can explore her talks. I hope they help.