Age brings wisdom, or age shows up alone, You never know!
Quote I found while looking through old post from KavinCoach. One of the things KavinCoach said would happen to every person was everyone went through being a teenager. He gave me a detailed description of a teenager and he accurately described what all my children went through. It was a wild time especially when 5 of them were teenagers all at once. After KavinCoach finished his description I wondered why he was telling me all about being a teenager since all my kids had grown. Comprehension finally dawned on me. I went through the teen years without ever being a teenager. I was horrified at the thought that I would still have to be a teenager. Are you kidding me? (My granddaughter loves to say this.) Well, I now consider myself a 13 year old with 40 years experience. Like all teenagers, I am exploring relationships. The progress this year is I have a great relationships with all my grandkids. I loved it in when our 20 month old grandson saw me and ran towards me then about 5 feet away turned around and backed up until I could pick him up and set him on my lap. Christmas day we played with their toys and had a grand time. My own kids I enjoy sitting down and visiting. They are such amazing people and have brought other amazing people into our lives through marriages and friendships. I am in awe of the wonderful relationships I have with my kids and grandkids. This year marked a wedding, a baby born, and an engagement so our family is expanding. I discovered a long time ago that my heart expands with it. I am thankful this year at the wonderful growth in our family. I just hope being a teenager now will go REALLY quickly.
2 comments:
Hi Ruth,
Love your post. You are truly blessed for having the family you have. Praise the Lord.
Now, on the subject of being a teenager. I wouldn't go back to those years if you paid me. ... lol ...
Blessings to you and your family in the New Year!
Judy
I don't want to either. KavinCoach reassured me that it is part of the process of living. Teen years were very difficult the first time but I was focused on surviving not growing up. I missed the stages that apparently are a requirement. I think it is like the steps of grieving, everyone goes through the same steps but not always in the same order.
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