Kindness

"Remember there's no such thing as a small act of kindness. Every act creates a ripple with no logical end."
- Scott Adams  

Several times I have written about the 5/50 assignment. I think it is good to remind myself when I am feeling overwhelmed and not feeling like I am doing much. I get this feeling when I start work again.  ( I work as a teacher's assistant so 2months in the summer time I am out of work. ) I spent all day putting classes into a rotation. When the teacher checked back with me, I had misunderstood part of her instructions. I needed to redo part of the work. I get home and I feel brainless and unmotivated to do anything.  Basically the 5/50 assignment is to do a small act of kindness for someone else then write it down.  It can't take more than 5 minutes or cost more that 50 cents.  (About the cost of a candy bar.)  The original assignment was given to me by KavinCoach.  I totally missed the point.  When I reported back, I made the comment that I should be doing more since I found ample of time to give these little bits of kindness.  KavinCoach shook his head.  He drew me a picture.  He explained the message I was supposed to get was I am a good person that does kind things.  Instead my warped little mind twisted it around to "I am NOT doing enough good."  I am not kind to myself.  I do not treat myself with the same regard that I show others.  I tend to twist that which is good for me and make it another whip to lash myself.  So now, I remind myself to do the 5/50 assignment every so often to remind myself I am a good person.  The ripple effect of kindness reaches out in directions unpredicted.  One of the stories that I tracked down to be based on a true experience:

One day, a poor boy who was selling goods from door to door to pay his way through school, found he had only one thin dime left, and he was hungry.

He decided he would ask for a meal at the next house. However, he lost his nerve when a lovely young woman opened the door. Instead of a meal he asked for a drink of water. She thought he looked hungry so brought him a large glass of milk. He drank it slowly, and then asked, "How much do I owe you?" "You don't owe me anything," she replied. "Mother has taught us never to accept pay for a kindness." He said..... "Then I thank you from my heart."

As Howard Kelly left that house, he not only felt stronger physically, but his faith in God and man was strong also. He had been ready to give up and quit.

Year's later that young woman became critically ill. The local doctors were baffled. They finally sent her to the big city, where they called in specialists to study her rare disease. Dr. Howard Kelly ! was called in for the consultation. When he heard the name of the town she came from, a strange light filled his eyes. Immediately he rose and went down the hall of the hospital to room. Dressed in his doctor's gown he went in to see her. He recognized her at once. He went back to the consultation room determined to do his best to save her life. From that day he gave special attention to the case. After a long struggle, the battle was won.

Dr. Kelly requested the business office to pass the final bill to him for approval. He looked at it, then wrote something on the edge and the bill was sent to her room. She feared to open it, for she was sure it would take the rest of her life to pay for it all. Finally she looked, and something caught her attention on the side of the bill. She read these words..... "Paid in full with one glass of milk"

Signed Dr. Howard Kelly. Tears of joy flooded her eyes as her happy heart prayed: "Thank You, God, that Your love has spread abroad through human hearts and hands."

Now you have two choices. You can send this page on and spread a positive message or ignore it and pretend it never touched your heart.

The original information:

The Truth: 
As is often the case, someone has fictionalized the details of this story and gotten some of it wrong, but it is essentially a true event.

Dr. Howard Kelly was a distinguished physician who, in 1895, founded the Johns Hopkins Division of Gynecologic Oncology at Johns Hopkins University.  According to Dr. Kelly's biographer, Audrey Davis, the doctor was on a walking trip through Northern Pennsylvania one spring day when we stopped by a farm house for a drink of water.  A little girl answered his knock at the door and instead of water, brought him a glass of fresh milk.  He visited with her briefly, then went his way.  Sometime after that, the little girl came to him as a patient and needed surgery.  After the surgery, the bill was brought to her room and on it were the words, "Paid in full with one glass of milk."

http://www.truthorfiction.com/rumors/o/oneglassofmilk.htm#.UftLY1NwyHk

Reminder to self:  Be kind to myself and others.