Sunday, December 4, 2011

Santa Saga


Where there is Christmas, there is Santa.  As a young idealistic parent I wanted the focus and emphasis of Christmas to be on Christ.  Our first born son pushed me towards excluding Santa completely.  He was just over 1 year old the first time he saw Santa.  He threw a complete and total fit.  We actually had to leave the party we were at to get him away from the sight of 'Santa Monster.'  We didn't mention him again.  When we had 3 little kids riding in the back seat of our car, I over heard oldest, age 5, explaining to his younger sisters about Mr. Christmas.  He explained that he showed up just before Christmas and that meant it would soon be Christmas.  I relented.  I needed some explanation.  During this time I had read a very funny article on what kind of childhood Santa must have had to believe he could do the impossible, satisfy everyone's needs, and take credit for someone else's work.  I had a very negative attitude about the old elf.  Then one Christmas we made a choice that cost us all the money we had.  We literally had no money for Christmas.  I was pregnant and we were without a job.  I felt bad that our 2 good little kids were not going to have anything for Christmas and I couldn't blame it on Santa since we never used that story.  However, we were together as a family.  We spent Christmas eve with friends.  When we drove home, Santa Claus had left a Christmas present for our children in the drive way.  (I still cry when I think about it.)  We hadn't told anyone that we would not being having a Christmas that year.  My husband felt we needed a tree to put the present under so he went to the Christmas lot and bought a tree for a dollar.  He actually drilled holes in the trunk and added limbs to fill in the 'hole'.  We had a few decorations and the tree was one step up from a Charlie Brown Christmas tree.  The lone present from Santa Claus stood proudly.  What could I say?  We added a few little gifts that we had. The next morning, the 2 kids opened a "Little people's Tree house."  On our budget, we never could have afforded it.  Our kids played with this toy for years.  It became the pivotal point in changing my opinion.  I now needed to find a place in our life for Mr. Christmas.  He had a place as a tradition and a personal blessing. 

I treated all problems the same way, first I did research on what other people did about Santa Claus.  This is some of what I learned.

I read and email about a motorcycle club dressing up as Santa Claus and delivering presents to a state children's hospital.  When one of the residents became to old and was moved to a group home they were baffled about his tales that Santa rode a motorcycle, until Christmas Eve.  The motorcycle group heard he had been moved and rode their Harley's to find him.  Sure enough Christmas Eve Santa arrived on a motorcycle to bring him a present.  Here are a couple of links where motorcycle clubs are still bringing gifts to kids in need. 

http://www.bocaratontribune.com/delray-based-motorcycle-club-delivers-7000-in-toys-and-gifts-to-home-safe-kids/


http://lufkindailynews.com/news/local/article_e244d580-fd11-11e0-833d-001cc4c002e0.html?mode=story

Source was never found but this is what I read and after my own experience I believe it is true.


In September 1960, I woke up one morning with six hungry babies and just 75
cents in my pocket. Their father was gone. The boys ranged from three months
to seven years; their sister was two. Their Dad had never been much more
than a presence they feared. Whenever they heard his tires crunch on the
gravel driveway they would scramble to hide under their beds. He did manage
to leave $15 a week to buy groceries. Now that he had decided to leave, there would be no more beatings, but no
food either. If there was a welfare system in effect in southern Indiana at
that time, I certainly knew nothing about it. I scrubbed the kids until they
looked brand new and then put on my best homemade dress. I loaded them into
the rusty old 51 Chevy and drove off to find a job. The seven of us went to every factory, store and restaurant in our small town. No luck. The kids stayed crammed into the car and tried to be quiet
while I tried to convince whomever would listen that I was willing to learn
or do anything. I had to have a job. Still no luck. The last place we went to, just a few miles out of town, was an old Root Beer Barrel drive-in that had been converted to a truck stop. It was called
the Big Wheel. An old lady named Granny owned the place and she peeked out of the window
from time to time at all those kids. She needed someone on the graveyard
shift, 11 at night until seven in the morning. She paid 65 cents an hour and
I could start that night. I raced home and called the teenager down the
street that baby-sat for people. I bargained with her to come and sleep on
my sofa for a dollar a night. She could arrive with her pajamas on and the
kids would already be asleep. This seemed like a good arrangement to her, so
we made a deal. That night when the little ones and I knelt to say our prayers we all
thanked God for finding Mommy a job. And so I started at the Big Wheel. When I got home in the mornings I woke the baby-sitter up and sent her home with one dollar of my tip money--fully half of what I averaged every night. As the weeks went by, heating bills added a strain to my meager wage. The
tires on the old Chevy had the consistency of penny balloons and began to
leak. I had to fill them with air on the way to work and again every morning
before I could go home. One bleak fall morning, I dragged myself to the car to go home and found
four tires in the back seat. New tires! There was no note, no nothing, just
those beautiful brand new tires. Had angels taken up residence in Indiana? I
wondered. I made a deal with the local service station. In exchange for his mounting
the new tires, I would clean up his office. I remember it took me a lot
longer to scrub his floor than it did for him to do the tires. I was now working six nights instead of five and it still wasn't enough.
Christmas was coming and I knew there would be no money for toys for the
kids. I found a can of red paint and started repairing and painting some old
toys. Then I hid them in the basement so there would be something for Santa
to deliver on Christmas morning. Clothes were a worry too. I was sewing
patches on top of patches on the boys pants and soon they would be too far
gone to repair. On Christmas Eve the usual customers were drinking coffee in the Big Wheel.
These were the truckers, Les, Frank, and Jim, and a state trooper named Joe.
A few musicians were hanging around after a gig at the Legion and were
dropping nickels in the pinball machine. The regulars all just sat around
and talked through the wee hours of the morning and then left to get home
before the sun! came up. When it was time for me to go home at seven o'clock on Christmas morning I
hurried to the car. I was hoping the kids wouldn't wake up before I managed
to get home and get the presents from the basement and place them under the
tree. (We had cut down a small cedar tree by the side of the road down by
the dump.) It was still dark and I couldn't see much, but there appeared to be some
dark shadows in the car-or was that just a trick of the night? Something
certainly looked different, but it was hard to tell what. When I reached the car I peered warily into one of the side windows. Then my jaw dropped in amazement. My old battered Chevy was filled full to the top
with boxes of all shapes and sizes. I quickly opened the driver's side door,
scrambled inside and kneeled in the front facing the back seat. Reaching
back, I pulled off the lid of the top box. Inside was whole case of little
blue jeans, sizes 2-10! I looked inside another box: It was full of shirts
to go with the jeans. Then I peeked inside some of the other boxes: There
was candy and nuts and bananas and bags of groceries. There was an enormous
ham for baking, and canned vegetables and potatoes. There was pudding and
Jell-O and cookies, pie filling and flour. There was a whole bag of laundry
supplies and cleaning items. And there were five toy trucks and one
beautiful little doll. As I drove back through empty streets as the sun slowly rose on most amazing
Christmas Day of my life, I was sobbing with gratitude. And I will never forget the joy on the faces of my little ones that precious morning. Yes, there were angels in Indiana that long-ago December. And they all hung
out at the Big Wheel truck stop. 

THE POWER OF PRAYER When you receive this, say a prayer. This prayer will do. That's all you
have to do. There is nothing attached. This is powerful. 

3 comments:

Laurel Hawkes said...

You shared this with me, years ago. It still makes me cry. :-)

Candycan said...

that brought a tear to my eye

Ruth said...

Me too.