http://themetapicture.com/how-to-interact-with-the-introverted/
One of the shockers for me after integration was to find out that I am more of an introvert. I prefer a certain amount of alone time everyday. Parties leave me drained for days. Loving someone I still need my space. I didn't know I did this. When I worked in parts, one part of me was totally extroverted, she loved parties and people, usually in that order. Another part thought that parties and people a total waste of time. I didn't know that when I brought all the parts together I would be more of an introvert than anything else. I started researching what it was to be an introvert. I wanted to know if I was just being difficult. I learned that I'm not. One of the videos I found on-line even explained that introverts function differently from extroverts on how they react to food, social situations, type of work they enjoy doing, and many different areas. I like the idea that being an introvert is just a different operating system. I'm content to be alone. I am thankful for a wonderful DH that accepts that for me not going to a party with him is not him but me. I learned how to enjoy a party by accepting that I need something different by helping in the kitchen or going for a short walk outside. Accepting myself went a long way to allowing others to accept me.
2 comments:
Love the link! I used to be what seemed 'extroverted' and then as I started down this path I found out that I am actually closer to an introvert. Thank you for sharing this.
Your welcome TR.
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