A comment from this blog https://graceformyheart.wordpress.com/2015/04/17/dont-they-ever-die
N stands for Narcissistic person. The person may be a parent, boss, coworker, spouse or other individual close to you. I was stunned when I came across others that had a narcissistic parent. Seriously read the comments that lead up to this one. Not allowing a narcissistic control your life is not being unforgiving.