I read this YEARS ago. Sadly it also set off major triggers as in melt down triggers. I learned the source process the information and still struggled. I was very disappointed in myself. Then I worked in an environment that encouraged me to declutter and clean up on a regular basis. Learning by example does much better than scolding, punishing and shaming. I am a work in progress. I decided not to take before pictures. I don't need to remind myself how far I have come. I know it. I am also spending time with family and friends during my break. I'm loving it.
|Clutter to me, home to the spider.|